street_child_v15.jpgA kid who died on the streets

The park bench he was lying on was cold enough to serve as a refrigerator. He was wearing an English Cricket kit displaying the number 11 which was barely readable due to a rip in the back of his shirt. His cheeks were extremely pink but the pink was not the shade usually associated with good health, it was the pink of Death. He was rolled into a fetal position; his small hands nestled instinctively between his legs trying to find warmth that his body was unable to provide. He wrapped the jute bag which served as his personal heating system around himself and tried to breath but at -5 Celsius even that can become a hard task. He wanted to cry but tears refused to come. He felt like the cold was eating into his bones. In order to forget the cold he decided to envision the meal he had in the morning, Stale tandoori bread dipped in water and a rotten tomato which he stole from a vegetable vendor .Suddenly he realized that tomorrow was Friday which meant Mewa Pulao at Masjid Mahabbat Khan. A veritable feast for the street people! But all this thought of food was making him dizzy, his head started spinning and his fingers became numb. Slowly but surely he was being lured by that all mighty conqueror which is commonly known as sleep. He was asleep within five minutes.

 

The Body of Tarik aged 8 was discovered the next day in Cantonment Park. He was an orphan who collected junk at day and slept at park benches during the night and amid the never ending suicide bomb blasts his death only merited for a six line mention in the inside pages of a local daily favored only by naan baai’s and yours truly. According to the initial report of the coroner’s office, Tarik died due to Hypothermia or “exposure to extreme cold” somewhere between 9 pm and 12 am on the night of 1st February. After reading the news item the first question that leapt into my mind was “what were you doing at that specific time?” I was watching a movie with the room heater working at full throttle and I am sure most of you were indulging in some same mind numbingly petty activity.

 

While the recreated description of Tarik’s last moments alive is a figment of my imagination but his death is real. So real in fact that it becomes painful when ever I attempt to wear warm clothing. But pain should not stop me from getting to the real issues at hand, which are the plight of homeless children and the collective attitude of disregard adopted by our society.

 

Put yourself in Tarik’s shoes for a moment; visualize yourself as an 8 year old kid who lives on the street and who has no one to care for and look after. Whose only aim in life is to live from one day to another, whose soul career interest is staying alive. A kid who is not bothered with maintaining a high GPA or with meeting his parents expectations; a kid who just wants to have one decent meal in a day and a warm place to sleep at night. The phrase “survival of the fittest” can only be understood in all its entirety by a kid who lives on the streets.

 

Wasn’t it scary? Fighting for life for one’s very existence? Yes, it was! Can the situation for these kids be improved? Yes, it most certainly can be! Can we the students do something to help? Yes we can, we can do loads of stuff to help these children and improve their standard of living.

 

We can donate money to charitable organizations that help and rehabilitate street children and it doesn’t even have to be a hefty amount. By putting aside only Rs. 15 a day for a month we can feed a street kid for a week. We can donate our time and volunteer for only two to three hours every week for a charitable organization such as “Save the children” or any NGO that helps such kids. We can take any such kid to our home and offer him/her a decent meal.

 

The list of things we can do to help street children is endless but the bottom line is this that WE have to help them and WE have to help them NOW! No one deserves to die like this. So the next time when you are itching to buy the new ipod or a new cell phone, Just Remember The Forgotten Children!

Ok now tomorrow is result day in my uni and i already know how its gonna turn out but still this day has always been nerve racking.its like some big heavy thing has been placed at my chest and iam unable to move or breathe.

My parents will also be returning tomorrow,hope they fly back safely (it has been raining for 5 consecutive days now here in Peshawar! )

Anyway will update you guys tomorow as to what happens at the uni!!

have fun and enjoy the song!

” Sajni paas bulaao naa kai dil aaj toota hai………………….Saajan maan jao naa kai woh aaj rootha hai.”

The above is a line from the song Sajni by Jal.There is nothing extra ordinary about the song.Vocals are pathetic,Lyrics are sub-standard,Guitaring could have been better and the video is totally cliched.In short the song has nothing that could have enticed me into listening it……………rite?…………..WRONG!!!!!!!!!!!! .

The stupid song is stuck in my head since 10 in the morning and its almost 3.50 am and iam still listening to it and and singing along :( .I have Transferred it to my cell phone,Ipod and I have even uploaded the video to that pathetic excuse of a social networking site called orkut :( .The following sms was sent to everyone on my address book(I stopped counting when the number reached 37) ,

Hey dude listen to “Sajni” by Jal,Its the most awesome song ever”

Did I mention that the numbers of my dad and Our Head of Department were also in there? :)

Its like I have become a walking and talking Billboard for jal!

Anyway I’ll be off now and get some sleep.Hopefully by tomorrow i’ll be able to rid my self of this awful song.

Meanwhile enjoy the song ;)

“Sajnji paas bulaao naa kai dil aaj toota hai………………….Saajan maan jao naa kai woh aaj rootha hai.”

Contrary to public opinion, being the owner of a not-yet-successful blog does have some perks.It can really make you think and question your motives and intentions,it can make you wander into realms of thought that you previously weren’t even aware of.It gives you the freedom to write anything (and I do mean anything) because most people don’t expect anything classy from you and are by nature encouraging and kind.You can write about the most boring and un-note worthy thing out there and no one will care.This relieves a lot of pressure I must admit.

Anyway,getting back to the topic. As I mentioned in an earlier post that iam alone at home these days.The solitude has provided me with ample time to reflect on the year gone bye and i discovered quite a few things which i previously had ignored.

I realised that the year I spent at home waiting to get into a good university was the biggest mistake of my life(so far) , I should have joined the computer engineering program at Szabist.Fast(My current uni) is way better than Szabist but it would have saved me a year, which can needless to say, never be replaced.I have also realized that love can’t be forced down our throats,you have to let it come to you.I came to understand that priorities change so now i really cant blame my college friends for not keeping in touch.I also realized that my parents have been extremely patient and understanding with me during the past year and i shouldn’t test there patience anymore. And most important of all i’ve realised that in a university if your physics teacher doesnt like you , she can then really screw your GPA :D (I passed,but barely).

Iam not a resolutions kinda guy and feel no shame in admitting that in all my 20 years , I have never made resolutions for new year,Life has been pretty much instinctive till now.But this year I have decided (rather late) to make some resolutions and fulfill them as well.So,keeping in mind the above realisations (and more) I have decide to make the following resolutions.

1:- I will become a better son.

2:- I will become a better brother.

3:- I will try to become a better Muslim.

4:- I will spend atleast half of my summer hols with a charity.

5:- I will try not to hurt other peoples feelings (specially if those other people just happen to be my teachers :D ).

6:- I will make an effort to get more excercise and reduce weight.

7:- I will post regularly on my blog.

8:-And last but not the least I will try to keep myself in a positive frame of mind.

Hope I didnt bore you guys to death :) .

The good thing about trying is that its not about success,its about the pleasure you derive from just knowing that you have not accepted failure!

Take a look at this:- Francis Ellen Speaks

This lady is awesome!!!!!!

Ok so I was going to be “home alone” for 3 days,Three very sweet, awesome and beautiful days if i may say so myself :) .My Parents had gone to Karachi and till they returned theres absolutely no one at home to keep me in check!

Coming back to topic,having afternoon tea with my best mate Bilal at a nearby dhaaba is a daily ritual of mine.During this time we talk about different things.Sometimes its university life and the politics within,sometime we talk about Pakistan and its future(the prediction are getting gloomier by the day).Today unconsciously we started discussing girls,it started with the girls in our respective classes,spread to the girls in the whole university and ended on girls in general.lol we both discovered quite a few things that could be summarized in three points.

1:-Girls in our class were reserved at first but when they opened up……….MAN THEY REALLY OPENED UP!!!!!!! (We seriously didn’t want to know the name of their new French poodles)

2:-Girls in our university are extremely boring and unoriginal

3:-Girls in general are totally complex creatures lol and thats exactly why we r attracted to them.

In between making these observations we devoured 8 parathaas , 4 andaaz and 12 cups of chai collectively(lol yea we do eat loads,though it only shows on me :( ) .I didn’t feel anything at first but the food poisoning started to show itself after 2 hours.

Sparing you the details i shitted and barfed a lot but feeling a bit ok now though still in no condition to enjoy the 3 days of blessed and eagerly awaited solitude! ………………. MOM i misssss yaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!………………come back!!!!! :(

Hey there guys,This Is my First blog post(at this blog).In a Rush Rite now but will write something tonite.So dont change the channel and stay tuned! :p